It seems I've run into trouble with at least one person who takes exception to my tongue-in-cheek characterization of my wife's dog, Gypsy, as a "stupid" dog. Setting aside the uncouth nature of "Snortz," as we often call her, Gypsy obviously has some wisdom about her.
She gets excited about certain things, namely meals. When I return home from work, it's not that she's necessarily excited to see me (though she is a little bit), it has as much to do with "if he's arriving home, that means it's time for my dinner!"
Any visitor to our home creates another excitable moment. It's a fine opportunity to flare her nostrils and launch a loving array of wetness on a visitor's legs. The Gypsy-savvy guest who wears shorts in the summer knows not to enter the house until she has settled down, but there's always the sneak attack a little later when they're less suspecting. Her nose is generally set on "spray" rather than "stream," and I suspect that "Aw, mannnnnnnnn," in dog terms, must mean "I love you too, Gypsy." Endearing.
Which brings us to the UPS guy, yet another excitable occasion. He visits fairly regularly, due to my wife's crafting business. Over the past year or more, she recognizes the brown truck and eagerly awaits his arrival at the door, knowing that he'll leave the package at the doorstep, ring the bell, and depart. She doesn't have a chance for her preferred social graces, but the glass pane, if dogspeak was an option to it, would be saying "I love you too, Gypsy." Where's the Windex?
Her excitement, though, is less about the UPS guy and more about the large milk bone he leaves on top of the box. Or, sadly, it used to be. There's a new UPS guy now, and he doesn't leave a bone. She hardly musters now when Brown arrives, the memory of many bones replaced by the expectation of nothing. Again.
Successful marriages take lots of milk bones. As my peer group enters mid-life, there have been several recent occasions where friends or acquaintances have reassessed their lives to date and decided that a crisis is a logical next step. They haven't received enough dog bones in recent years, and I suspect they haven't given them out, either.
I'm not one for psychobabble self help books. A lot of authors make great arching life-changing
conclusions with a few pithy case stories in hand to support their cases. That doesn't mean that they're right.
One book that gained a lot of traction for me, though, was The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman. As I read through it (and it's a fast read or I wouldn't have), my truth detector kept pinging on point after point.
The five languages of love are ways in which we demonstrate and receive love. Briefly, these are:
1) Gifts
2) Physical Touch
3) Words of Affirmation
4) Acts of Service
5) Quality Time (not co-location time)
The point made is that, of these, we each have one primary love language. If we value "Acts of Service" most, we tend to give the same. That's fine, but not if your spouse's primary love language is "Words of Affirmation." They feel unloved even while their partner is busy sharing their love - but in the wrong form. I've presented this concept to groups before, and it's amazing how often spouses do not guess each other's primary love language correctly. A complicating factor is that they may change over time, and none are invalid completely.
Undergirding all of this is the primary concept that love is not a feeling. It's a decision. Feeling "in love" lasts about two years, and after that it takes a regular decision to make that special someone continue to feel special, and vice versa.
The stereotypical mid-life crisis may involve all sorts of things outside of relationships, such as glamour toys, plastic surgery, a new career, a new hobby, etc. But, for people near to me, the real crisis occurs not when they find life wanting in some way, but when they make a decision not to love. And, that bothers me greatly.
$30 a month for a data plan was certainly not in the budget. And I already had a perfectly good Razor.
I find a camera store? Yelp to the rescue - searching by "camera," it presented various stores by distance from my present location. Some of these were just for photo processing (which seems almost an anachronism). But finding what appears to be a real camera store, I press against the listing with the tip of my finger and, in a very short time, and I'm looking at a steet map with a blue pin where I am and a red pin where I want to go. And my pin moves with me as I travel.
a song which would likely never be aired… no problem. Later I was demonstrating it to my father-in-law and gave it a far greater challenge, and again it scored with the oh so tremendously popular “Clarinet Concerto in A (liadagio, opening)”. But it was right. Other songs it has identified include “Pirate Love” by Johnny Thunders, “Vibration” by The Congos, and “Use Somebody” by Kings of Leon. It does struggle with some live recordings, but overall, this app gets an “A.”
competition. I really don't want (or need) more than one source, and Sportacular was the first one I found that worked well and logically. However, ESPN lately entered the contest and has the muscle of some of their "newsline" content. Another revision or two in their sorting options, and it could emerge as the winner. An honorable mention, which speaks to the potential of an application for literally everything, was one specific to the Masters golf tournament, from which I could access the leaderboard and watch live video (with sophisticated narration, of course) from two holes.
named Chester Burnett, aka Howlin' Wolf. Still, the blues are the blues, even though I was only acquainted with the English and American reinterpretations. In short, it was worth a few bucks.
Dixon (author of several of the most covered blues songs), and other noteworthy musicians.
of interior decorators is unadorned ceiling space. This is abundantly clear upon entering the registration area of Bellagio.


Sometimes, a potpourri of lighting fixtures will work. Why be so picky when there's space for plenty? This is another atrium in the Wynn, and I wonder how many people ignore the lights as an infinity pool and waterfall are the featured highlight in this area.
Moving next door to Wynn's Encore, we have further variety. Let's imagine that you take a taxi to the hotel, and a bellhop whisks away your luggage as you enter to register. Do you notice the ceiling of the portico? The point being, ceiling art or fanciful light fixtures are everywhere. 
may lead to monstrous insertions. In keeping with the Sinatra restaurant's retro look, this fixture, last seen sucking the salt from the crew of the USS Enterprise, lurks above unsuspecting diners. It's not as savage as it appears, but must be observed closely for appreciation of its fabrics, ropes and tones. It kind of sucks you in that way.
rather extravagant appearing chandeliers, which both complement the space and the retailers below.
for my audio entertainment for my day trip, and this timely acquisition (purchased and autographed after the concert two nights prior) filled the void. I didn't play it constantly, but this may have been the first time I've listened to any album 7 or 8 times in a row. In short, there was nothing else to listen to "out there," and the album did a fine job of masking the sound of the unconfident sounding engine in my rented Dodge Avenger. It's my first experience with what, in essence, was a forced association. But not a bad one!
competing for aural space - drummer, two percussionists, bassist, acoustic guitar, keyboards, two singers, trumpeter, trombonist (who played an excellent solo), plus Santana.
Howard brought this chunk of rock home from a trip he made to Death Valley, and, to a degree, it's disappointing to find that Death Valley rocks are not exactly a rarity.




actually an exhibit from the
but it certainly chases a vision unassociated with commercial artistic expression.